Remembering Gobbles

This weekend our hamster, Gobbles died. It was so sad. We haven't dealt with the death of a pet in our family. It was hard. Made so much harder by regrets that you feel when you mourn the loss of someone special.

We all really loved that little guy. I remember when we first held him. He loved us and we loved him so much we had to bring him home with us that very night even though we were on our way to see Horton Hears a Who at the movies. We just couldn't bear the thought of anyone else adopting him.

He was so full of personality. It always made me laugh to see all the treasure he would collect and add to all his nests around our house every time he ran away. We loved watching him be a Houdini extraordinaire. One of my favorite times was watching him brace himself against his tube and try to push his cage door open with his hands and feet. He would walk upside down in his cage too. That always made us laugh.

He was so good with our children and all of their friends. Everyone wanted to play with gobbles and even if it meant he was awoken from a good days sleep he was such a good sport.

We loved to play with him. There were many great Lego build sessions that produced great amenities to our little hamsters usual world. Gobbles Land and the Gobbles mobile will forever set the standard in hamster history as the best of the best!

We had a funeral for him today. It was very sad. Mom, Dad and big kids all crying and poor little Kate, who doesn't know how to interpret and respond to what's going on, pretending to cry. We will all miss him very much.

Of course, the kids wanted to know right away when they would get a new hamster. No more caged animals for us for a while. They require so much more responsibility then we are obviously ready for. At least the other pets bug us for what they need. I think we will wait until we are all at a better place in our lives until we invite another hamster to be part of our family. Besides no little hamster could ever replace Gobbles!

A Sign

I found my first grey hair yesterday. Well actually it wasn't grey at all. It skipped grey and went straight to pure white. I don't think there is any coincidence that I happened to find this first little white streak in the same week after I was called to be the new Primary President (over like almost 30 teachers and 200 kids...not counting our nursery of sometimes 80 children).

I feel like I am losing my mind. Really I know after this Sunday it's not that I'm losing my mind. It's that there is just too much information for my mind to process and store and then try to retrieve. I told Dave I need to carry around one of his fancy phones. I think I'll try a small pad of paper first.

I just don't know how some people do it. Here I am trying to do too many things and not doing any of them well.

I'm sure there will be many, many more white hairs. Maybe one every Sunday. All I can say is that I hope I am a total babe like Storm (from the X Men) with a mane of white locks!

When It Rains It Pours!

For the record:

This week

-the washing machine broke (and can't be repaired, it should be noted that Kate wet the bed the night before it decided to die and I have her bedding sitting in the washer wet and now smelly)

-the car is making BAD sounds and will be in the shop within the next day or two

-the pump for our air bed was destroyed by one sweet 20 pound baby who by simply stepping on it sheared off the connector and now the dumb air tubes can't stay connected. (No air in the bed for Dave!)

-naturally it was the month to renew our car registration and Dave's dental malpractice insurance

-I have been called to be the Primary President (and if you have ever done that before you know how hard it is to have fiscal restraint!)

So according to my mathematical genius that adds up to several thousand dollars. AHHHH. I need a job:-)

And oh yeah, if anyone knows anyone selling a new washing machine, car and a queen size bed...please let me know.

Sara's First Hair Cut

So there wasn't any serious cutting. But Sara's hair was always in her eyes so she got some bangs. I love them! She suddenly looks more grown up I think but still so stinking cute. The stylist was a miracle worker. How do you cute a baby's hair when they are constantly shaking their head and get everything to come out even? Magic!

Hair Do's and Dont's

Katie today wanted to give me a hair do. I love letting her. I LOVE having my hair brushed and played with! Many times I have wished I had straight hair just so my significant others (boyfriends and now husband) could run their fingers through my hair. It would be so much more romantic if they didn't hit a snarl halfway through.

Anyway...

Kate was brushing out my hair with the brush and crayons (???) when she says, "Mom, I'm not going to brush all the tangles ( a better word for curly hair). I don't want Dad to fall out of love with you!" This made me laugh. I have often told her that one of the reasons that Dad fell in love with me was because he loved my hair. (mostly in efforts to make her feel better about her own curls and frizz...she wants straighter hair like her friends. One friend told her that her hair wasn't smooth and it has been an issue ever since!) "Mom, your hair is too big," were the next words our of her mouth. Followed by, "your hair is too puffy."

I have always wanted to have a celebrity make over. Wouldn't it be soooo cool to see what Nick (from What Not To Wear) or some other hair genius, could do with this...

Hopefully it would look better than this... (no offense Kate, you are till my favorite stylist) she calls this brilliant style a "garden" hair do, complete with flowers and dragonflies...

P.S. You know one year, I think I was 14, I actually used my hair to my advantage. It was Halloween and I brushed it out and teased it and made the most awesomely realistic lion's mane. I was the Sheepish Lion form the wizard of OZ.

My New House

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This is my new house. At least I want it to be! It is in Brush Prairie, a suburb of Vancouver. Four acres, a water fall, pond and acres of forest with a stream. Heaven!!!! I have been dreaming about it for a few days now, ever since Dave found it. Even the house itself is beautiful except the purple master bathroom. (I'm hoping that keeps everyone else away while Dave tries to find a job there)

The kids are excited too, which surprises me. I think they are just picturing all the fun adventures they could have. The tree forts and secret hideouts. Raising coi in the pond. Wow I'm hyperventilating.

Does anyone know a Dentist in Brush Prairie that wants to retire and sell us his practice????

I Wish...And The Evils Of Comparison

November 11, 2008

It is late and I have already tried going to bed, but sleep eludes me. The Doc said that if I write down the things that I'm thinking about as I lie in bed wishing I would fall asleep that I might just make it to La La Land. Otherwise they will just keep cycling through making me a very grumpy insomniac. I actually got out of bed last week to write a poem. Crazy. I'm 31 and nuts.

So here is what's keeping me awake at night tonight. Still a very selfish and childish reaction to testimony meeting last week. I have been really down this last few weeks and Sunday was already one of those really hard days. But the fragile since of composure that I was clinging to started sliding down a slippery slope when someone from the ward got up to bear testimony and included a public list of thank you's. Can I tell you how opposed I am to this. It doesn't matter whether it's the Grammies of the pulpit...it is always a bad idea. Thanking one person is different. If you single out one there is less chance of making someone feel left out. But when you thank several you almost assuredly leave someone out. You leave someone thinking man they mentioned everyone by me. The funny thing is that people always preface it with, "I know I'm going to leave someone out"...doesn't common since tell you to stop? Anyway, I felt totally useless and like a total failure as I had tried to make a difference and "be there". So I'm still struggling. Not because I wanted to be publicly thanked but because my efforts didn't make the list of what mattered to this person. I feel like a total teenager!!!

Problem number two. I have been in a total comparison rut lately. Isn't that what happens. You fall into a little depression and it gets only worse when you start thinking about your friends and the things you admire in them. But because you are already down your friends successes and talents make your own seem so small. Again...just a mean trick but I have been all too susceptible to recently. So here are the things I wish I could be...(not going to be a hypocrite and name names)

-the way friend A's children always look for some way to help whenever I see them in public
-friend B's total penchant for unselfishness, seriously she is always asking me how I am and if there is anything she can do for me
-the way friend C's children all love each other and get along
-the talents of friend D
-the gift of Motherhood that friend E makes seem so natural
-the way friend F is so devoted to the gospel and has made it such a focus in her family
-friend G's humor
-the relationship friend H has with her husband
-the way friend "I" can keep it all together and is always on the ball (I lost my purse twice this last week while shopping)
-the way friend J's children sit so reverently in Sacrament meeting
-how beautiful and stylish friends A-J are
-etc...etc...

Wow, so now that I've gotten all that out, I'm supposed to sleep better tonight. Somehow I doubt it.

I read a quote once that is so applicable here. It went something like this. Life isn't just a collection of beautiful pictures but the things that happen in between that get you from one postcard picture to another. This is definitely one of those "in between times".

Chancho

"I need to borrow some sweats...."

Nacho Libre...One of the greatest movies of all time

Chancho = Mexican slang for pig, a person who eats like a pig

We finally named our cat. Since he eats all the food in the house (his, the dogs, ours) this is a very appropriate name. We were having such a hard time naming him something that describe his general appearance that when Dave came up with this name I sighed a sigh of relief. We voted on Sunday. Four votes for Chancho and one for socks (poor Kate). We told Katie who started crying that the cat wasn't going to be Socks that she could use socks as his middle name. so she calls the cat Chancho socks. And for the first day or so after we named him she corrected everyone that called him Chancho. "No, it's Chancho Socks" you could hear her saying throughout the day.

What other names were up for consideration? The kids had a list on the bulletin board where they wrote down any ideas and who came up with them. Here is a sampling:

*speck, smudge, socks, boots, ali, thomas, roadkill, chainsaw, pepper, corn beef hash with a tail, coon, mo jo, bo, moe, pouncer, oreo, coal, fuzzy, rosco, whiskers, mittens, speedy, and baby

I think Dave is secretly very happy his name for a pet finally won an election!

Lost In Translation

Kate was looking at the pictures in her BOM yesterday and comes to me saying, "Mom all the pictures are of Jesus except this one (Moroni burying the golden plates). He's just an old man with a piece of wood." I laughed so hard. Hopefully Moroni is too.

Sara is weaned. We are both still a little sad. But here's to fitting back into my blouses soon!

The Face Of A Killer

Papa Vito you terrible man...killing Barry Underwood in cold blood

Happy New Year Everyone. Doesn't this convicted felon look a lot like David? The resemblance is scary.

We had a marvelous New Year's Eve and hope you did too! Dave and I hosted our first Murder Mystery to usher in the new year year. It was a riot. Kids partied upstairs and adults downstairs. And it worked out believe it or not. We were limited by the numbers of players in the game, I have done some research since and have discovered that there are online companies that will create games for you including catering to the number of guests you would like to invite. So next year we will try that out. But this year was awesome!!!!!

The Cast of Characters (and Suspects)

Bonney Lass and Bud Wiser

Tiny Bubbles and Ralph Rottingrape

Otto Von Schnapps and Merilyn Merlot

Papa Vito and Heddy (me but of course no picture...my costume was too lame!)

It took us almost three hours to discover that Papa Vito out of Spite for being taken for granted sunk low enough to Bury Barry in the wine cellar.

After our wild night of accusations we brought the kids done and Heather taught us all how to play Mafia. We played several rounds. So much fun. Emily talked about it all day long the next day and wanted to play it with any friend that came through our door.

Once we were all gamed out we went out into the freezing cold to light fireworks. Fortunately as is my custom I over bought for the 4rth of July. (everyone else was done and we still had a whole box to go...so we took some home to save for New Years) The kids and Dad's treated us to a pretty decent light display and then we came inside and talked a bit before finally heading off to bed.

I parties and I LOVE to dress up. This a tradition that is totally a keeper!